First Published 8 September 2005
Articles are starting to appear about how some Katrina refugees are being arrested for public intoxication and disorderly conduct in the Astrodome and in various shelters. The articles mention this fact as if it were happening in a vacuum, as if the last horrible days were not an inextricable backdrop to this behavior.
Of course order needs to prevail to keep people safe. And yes, there are a few folks who were no doubt engaged in disorderly conduct before the winds and the water of Katrina came. But the vast majority of them were not. And in the aftermath of Katrina, these folks might find themselves feeling things and thinking things and doing things that are ‘off.’ Things that they, themselves, do not understand. When this happens, what they need is competent psychological understanding and, if need be, intervention. Yes, such intervention can include caring, respectful containment when necessary. But what it definitely does not include is a jail cell.
Imagine it. You’ve weathered a huge, horrific hurricane in which your
very life was threatened. The residents of your beloved city were
forced to flee in a dramatic mass exodus. That, in and of itself, is
traumatizing enough. But then in the aftermath, if you were lucky
enough to have a house or apartment left, you are now faced with no
electricity or any running water and no prospect of any. As you are
scrounging for potable water, you watch in amazement as your home with
all of your worldly possessions you can’t afford to replace, your
precious memorabilia and your memories get swallowed up in a fast
rising flood of water you are helpless to stop. Many of you are
elderly or sick or frail. You watch as one by one you begin to succumb
to the rising water, the heat, the lack of food or essential
medicines. If you haven’t watched your family die, perhaps you can’t
find them. Maybe they were whisked away by a helicopter to who knows
where.
As you sit grief-stricken at the loss of beloved pets and family
members, you watch in horror as the bloated bodies of your friends and
neighbors float down your street that is now a rubble-choked river.
You feel ill and weak from little decent food and water for days upon
days. You are filthy. Everything, including you, stinks. You feel
betrayed and abandoned as the promised help never came, and never came,
and never came. You feel helpless, always helpless. When you are
finally rescued, you perhaps are separated from your six month old
child, your husband or your grandmother with nothing but the clothes on
your back, or a garbage bag filled with hastily gathered, soaking
belongings. You are then transported tens, hundreds, or even thousands
of miles away to a totally unfamiliar place. If you are one of the few
lucky ones, you are taken in by a family of strangers. If not, you are
either put in another huge warehouse-like situation or in a shelter
where you are under armed, curfewed watch and told blithely that “you
are not under arrest.” But it sure feels like it. You have been
subject to such surreal and stupefying trauma upon trauma upon trauma
that nobody could ever possibly understand but you and those who have
also gone through it. And then with your mind still reeling and your
body in shock, you are expected to behave as if you are at a big tea
party on the 50 yard line with thousands of others. And if you
“misbehave” because you are beyond your breaking point, you may be
arrested.
Tea party manners in the Astrodome and the shelters would be lovely,
but our brains and our bodies just don’t work that way after such
incredible trauma. Sure, some folks may internalize the stress of it
all and shut down and look somewhat worse for wear but ‘fine’ on the
outside – at least for now. But for most people, something is going to
give.
After a trauma, you first help people feel as safe as is humanly
possible and then you educate them about their reaction and let them
know it’s normal. You help them tolerate their seemingly ‘crazy’
reactions and find ways to mitigate their impact. If need be, you help
them contain themselves. In the long term, you help them integrate
their experience so they can regain a semblance of normalcy in their
lives. But never, ever do you punish them. It is a wrongheaded,
uninformed response that will only add trauma to trauma and increase
the very behaviors you are trying to stop.
“If they are safe now, what’s the problem?” you might be tempted to
ask. The problem is that now is when the psychological aftermath
begins. Once you are no longer in life or death, minute-to-minute
survival mode, your brain and your body now have room to begin
processing, feeling, reliving, and remembering all that’s happened,
whether you want to or not. And try as folks might to keep it
together, often times they can’t. These are not people misbehaving –
they are having a perfectly human response to a stress none of us
should ever find ourselves pretending we can possibly imagine.
A traumatic response has nothing to do with being poor or having no
formal education. It is not about skin color. It is not about having
a ‘weak character,’ as is the prevailing attitude in the military when
men and women in combat zones get ‘shell shocked.’ Traumatized
soldiers are expected to have a very brief respite, if they’re lucky,
and then ‘suck it up’ and get back to the front lines. That is as
absurd and ignorant of how human beings are hardwired as it is adding
insult to injury. While people bring their own personal and family
histories and cultures to every situation, so everyone’s response will
be somewhat different, trauma affects everyone to one degree or
another.
The symptoms are many and won’t be fully delineated here. But for
example, some people may get depressed or suicidal when they’ve never
remotely felt that way before. People may start having serious panic
attacks. Some may become unable to go outside or come inside. Others
may be startled extremely easily. They may have difficulty
concentrating to the point of not being able to have a simple
conversation. Day to day life may seem superficial and intolerable.
Sleep may be severely disturbed. Nightmares are common. Interpersonal
interactions can become painfully difficult, and long standing
relationships may suffer. Kids often regress and show much younger
behaviors than is usual for their age – thumb sucking, bedwetting,
etc. They may be very clingy, or attach to nobody, or both. The
ability to contain emotions, including anger, may be more pronounced.
Fights might be more apt to break out, particularly when people are
being forced to live in such close quarters with so many where autonomy
and privacy is all but non-existent. It’s more tolerable for many to
feel angry than it is to feel sad or scared. Children and adolescents,
particularly, often act out their trauma through “behavioral problems.”
To cope with such intolerable feelings and thoughts, people often
resort to alcohol and drugs, as we do when we try to numb ourselves in
other situations we have difficulty wrapping our heads around. Such
numbing is common whether it is through substance abuse, children
refusing to talk, or feeling like everything around you is a dream, to
name but a few ways.
However the collective trauma manifests, I fear the response to these
emerging and very predictable symptoms will cause people who don’t
understand to heap appalling, unfair stereotypes on the refugees who
are mostly poor and people of color – “they don’t know how to be
behave” “they are ‘conduct problems,’” “they should be quiet and
appreciate what has been done for them,” etc. Such mislabeling and
gross misinterpretation of the situation would be its own disaster.
Expecting refugees to take a small amount of financial assistance and
‘get on with’ it is extremely unrealistic. It’s a set up for the
refugees and it’s a set up for the people of our country. Those who
suffered through Katrina need to be educated about the effects of
trauma, as do the loved ones and communities that are welcoming them,
as does our government. Dismiss this if you will. But just like the
socio-political subtext of this disaster, if we pay no heed to it, you
can be assured we’ll all live with greater consequences later.
If we’re serious about helping the refugees of such a tragedy in the
long term, we must make mental health care a priority. Significant
impairment in occupational functioning is very common in those who have
suffered major trauma. Looking at it from a stark dollars and cents
standpoint, if we start helping folks deal with their trauma now and in
the ensuing weeks and months (and, yes, maybe years) ahead, the
likelihood that they can create productive, fulfilling lives for
themselves will increase. If not, some children may not be able to
sustain their efforts in school and drop out. Those same kids as well
as the adult survivors of Katrina may show up in psychiatric hospitals,
community mental health settings and the like. Such reactive forms of
treatment are vital but are much costlier interventions for tax payers
than preventative care. And they certainly are more psychologically
and emotionally costly for those finding themselves with such severe
symptoms that they need major interventions or inpatient stays. This
is true for mental health services in general.
If you are concerned that you or someone you know is suffering from
trauma, regardless of the cause, talk to a mental health professional
in your community, or go to http://www.sidran.org/survivor.html for
some good resources. But in general, remember a ‘crazy’ stress
response is really a perfectly normal response to a ‘crazy’ situation.
There is no shame in being human. Our psyches can only take so much,
no matter who we are. In the very unlikely event they were ever to
find themselves in the same situation, privileged white presidents and
their cabinet members and their family members would manifest dramatic
trauma symptoms, too.
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In the Wake of Katrina, Who Do We Want to Be Now, America?
First Published 6 September 2005
From Hiroshima and Nagasaki to Viet Nam to our inner cities, the United States has a long history of not wanting to know, of forgetting, of “moving on.” But as most anyone in the psychology world will tell you, you can’t truly move on until you finally face the truth, whatever it may be. You must explore it, fully grieve it, compassionately take responsibility for any part you might have played, and come to terms with it. Then you move on. If you don’t, try as you might to keep it out of your awareness, the thing you’ve pushed deep down will undoubtedly make its way back to the surface as a sign or a symptom begging to be heard – maybe a heart attack or depression, perhaps substance abuse. What is ignored on a societal level also finds indirect expression, be it violence, unchecked consumerism or obsession with mind-numbing ‘reality shows.’
President Bush, too, I imagine has a long history of not wanting to know. He said there were no real warnings about 9.11. There were. He said there were no real warnings about the possibility of levees breaking in New Orleans. Flatly untrue. From his well-documented succession of business failings to his substance abuse to the fortuitous coattails he has ridden, I believe Bush has a history he is desperately trying to undo.
In his early days as president, even the highest office in the world
wasn’t enough to erase his past. He was faltering once again and his
handlers were worried. But then came 9.11. And in the rubble and the
horror and the shock of it all Bush at last found the shame-erasing
persona he so desperately needed. From that day forward he was no
longer George Bush, Struggling Son, but was George Bush, Avenger of
Terrorism, George Bush, Slayer of Evildoers. (See article about Bush’s
shame.)
Still, somewhere deep down he knew the truth. And to this day he
struggles to keep up the pretense like the all-too human man behind the
curtain playing the grand Wizard of Oz. The more Bush blusters and
postures, the more vulnerable he sounds. Those who are happy and
secure with themselves and their world have no need to bluster, to
discount, to ignore or to pass the buck. People secure in their world
are open. They listen.
But Bush said he couldn’t listen to the grieving mother of a dead
soldier camped outside his Texas ranch because he had to “get on with
[his] life.” Of course he couldn’t listen. Listening to her would be
a chink in his Avenger’s armor, a crack in his reality, and thus a
threat to his very fragile sense of self. We are all hardwired to hold
on tenaciously to our sense of who we are - it’s part of our survival
instinct. But unlike most of us, Bush’s intractable hold on his
reality is at the expense of countless lives the world over.
Bush’s handlers, I believe, understand his deep need to play the role
he fears he’s not and so they’ve fostered the Avenger of Terrorism
persona to manipulate his insecurities to then perpetuate their
self-interested ends.
This tenuous reality needs to be carefully protected. So since 9.11
Bush has been all but hermetically sealed in a mobile bubble of
unreality, a roving movie set. This was evident during the last
presidential campaign at a fundraiser in Northern California where
layers and layers of reality-proofing in the form of a line of
riot-geared police in front of a long row of obscuring 18-wheelers in
front of his huge bullet-proofed, tinted-window entourage were put
between the president and the protestors – ostensibly to keep them from
him, but equally to keep him from catching a glimpse of such
non-scripted reality. Also on the campaign trail, those that didn’t
sign a promise to support Bush were not allowed into his stump
speeches, lest a dissenting sign catch his or the media’s eye. At town
hall meetings, the audiences were checked and vetted and scripted.
White House press conferences are also scripted and those that don’t
follow the script are shunned and no longer given access - a perfect
metaphor for the overarching philosophy of the Bush administration.
Such a choreographed presidential life, his rigid, fragile sense of
self and his exceptionally privileged upbringing keep the horror of the
happenings of the Gulf Coast from having real life resonance with Bush,
just as he can’t fathom the struggles of the average worker who
actually has to live within the limitations of his paycheck.
It’s an administration disastrously disconnected from reality and the
real life needs of its people. As Bush said to Reverend Jim Wallis,
“I’m a white Republican guy who doesn’t get it…I don’t understand how
poor people think.” I don’t pretend to speak for all of us non-wealthy
folks, but I’ll tell you this – poor people and middle class people
don’t think, “Gee, I’d be so happy if only our GNP was forever #1 in
the world.” We don’t think how great it would be to send our kids off
to die to kick the butt of a terrible, but clearly impotent leader.
What we’re thinking is that we need decent schools for our kids to help
them succeed. We need jobs to put food on the table and roofs over our
families’ heads. And we want health benefits and non-toxic air and
water. We want to be considered worthy enough to be helped in a
disaster. That’s what we’re thinking.
Judging by the countless newspaper headlines, the rest of the world is
horror-struck at how the logistically capable federal government of the
wealthiest nation on the planet did not help its people in their dire
hour of need. They are flabbergasted at how it failed to step in, in
the crucial hours and days after Katrina hit when so many lives
could’ve been spared. They are disgusted at how our federal government
yet again tries to pass the buck. Horror and disgust are appropriate
responses to such seemingly perplexing behavior that had and will
continue to have such dire consequences. But given its disconnect from
the reality of average folk, I wouldn’t have expected anything
different from this administration.
In the highly-controlled, distant world it has created for itself, it
has gotten so used to doing what it wants when it wants with almost no
criticism and thus no accountability, it has gotten lackadaisical and
cocky to the extreme. The goal of the Bush administration’s world is
to perpetuate the Bush administration’s world. Those charged with our
care play seemingly infinite rounds of golf, pausing before a putt or
jetting off to a disaster area between rounds to grab a quick photo op
and offer an insulting sound bite about how well it’s all going while
our country’s infrastructure and ideals crumble around us.
In another disastrous disconnect, a global one this time, the Bush
administration not only didn’t heed warnings about terrorists attacking
high rises, it blew an unprecedented opportunity after 9.11 to unite a
sympathetic world in cooperation, connection and compassion. Instead
it unabashedly exploited 9.11 for political and corporate gain while
alienating the rest of the world. And through the debacle in Iraq it
helped spawn scores of new U.S.-loathing terrorists.
In the days and weeks and months that followed 9.11, the patriotism of
the people of the U.S. was manipulated and distorted, and our fear and
reason were hijacked. Feeling so shocked and unsafe and seeking
security as we are hardwired to do, many of us very understandably went
into survival mode and shut down. We stopped listening and stopped
thinking. We disconnected and saw the world through our need to feel
protected and to rally round the person charged to do that – the
president, with the help of his staff.
Our disconnection found expression in things like the ‘reality’ shows
that have become so ubiquitous. They mask reality, yet at the same
time belie a deeper one. They distract us from the goings-on of our
real life world as we absorb ourselves in a drama that is less
threatening to look at because it’s not ours, it’s “out there.” The
plotting and the scheming and the pitting one person against another in
a clawing, scratching climb to the top on those shows is a metaphor for
the consumer-frenzied, kill or be killed world the Bush administration
is helping to perpetuate at an unparalleled rate, intentionally or
not. “Get money! Get fame. Screw over your friends. If you aren’t
rich, you’re lazy. Lie. Grab whatever you can. You need more stuff!
There’s not enough. Hurry!”
All the while these and the American Idol-type shows that are filled
with real people give false hope to other real people who are not
making ends meet. People who are wrestling with difficult life
circumstances often deal with it by holding on to the thought of
“making it big” some day. The truth is that Americans are less
socio-economically mobile than any other industrialized country. We
use those shows and the like to keep our unrealistic dream alive. Were
the fictional American Dream not floating around in our current
mythology, we would surely rebel in mass numbers as many exploited
people have done before us.
But reality is peering its ugly head around every shuttered Mom and Pop
store and every choking, toxic lake and river, proving too great a
presence to ignore any longer. Opinion polls show the Bush
administration’s carefully constructed façade is cracking. We still
see the world through the need to be protected. But it’s because of
this very need that we are letting ourselves see what’s really in front
of us.
So the Bush administration can say what it will, but we know the truth
in our hearts. We feel it in our bones. We see it in our
neighborhoods and on our streets. Our schools are disintegrating and
along with them the promise of our children and our country’s future.
Social programs are hamstringed or gutted to fund the debacle created
in Iraq and the never-ending, opportunistically-defined ‘war on
terror.’ Racial inequality is the elephant in the room (even among
progressives), and class inequality is creating a gaping, unsustainable
tear in the fabric of our society tax cut by tax cut.
Ultimately what we realize is that this administration is not, in fact,
protecting us or making our survival one bit easier. In fact, the
promise of America is being stolen from us by a handful of people
blinded by their own fears and rendered so out of touch with reality by
their own insecurities. Such abuses did not start with the Bush
administration to be sure. History is littered with stories of men (as
it happens, almost exclusively men) doing similar things. But this
administration is literally running amok in a way other governments
could only have dreamed about.
And our congressional Democrats, succumbing to their own fear and
insecurities, have disconnected from our needs, too, failing to speak
up for us in the face of it all. Many still remain hawkish despite the
fact that the overwhelming majority of Democrats, and the majority of
Americans, are against the occupation in Iraq. The Democrats, then,
are as culpable as the Bush administration.
Katrina and how it has been handled by our federal government was as
fierce a wake up call for many in the U.S. as the hurricane itself. It
has forced us to look at our leaders’ blatant disconnection to us and
our needs. We watched in horror the images of the poor and the people
of color being all but left to fend for themselves. Along with the
rest of the world, we waited for the massive government mobilization –
this is America, after all, we thought. But we shook our heads in
disbelief and outrage when it was not immediate when we knew it very
well could and should have been. The scene has been a horrific one.
But as excruciatingly difficult as the last days have been, how we
choose to care for Katrina’s refugees and our country as a whole in the
aftermath will prove to be the most difficult part of all.
If we choose to turn a blind eye and not do everything we can to ensure
the engrained prejudices, the unmasked fear, the blatant self-interest
and self-absorption of our government, the you name it – all the
mechanisms that were in place to help create such an unspeakable
nightmare - are not brought to the light of day and challenged, then
we, too, are culpable.
Ignoring or “moving on” before we’ve explored what needs to be explored
is certainly a recipe for more disasters. The way the United States
manages itself is proving time and again to be unsustainable. Like the
levees in New Orleans, our economy is broken and soon something is
going to give in a big way. Our social structure is equally broken and
is not holding what it was put in place to hold. If we don’t take on
these issues, the levees are going to break, and the issues are going
to continue to take us on, whether we’re ready or not.
The public outcry about the handling of Katrina lets me know we are
ready. It’s time for us to come together in all our remarkable
diversity with a compassionate but starkly candid eye and take a
reckoning. It’s time very literally to decide in what direction we
want our country go.
Do we want to be a country that pretends race and class are not issues, or do we want to start a real dialogue and listen?
Do we want to be a country that allows money to be systematically taken
from agencies like FEMA, our social programs, and the very safety nets
that make America, America? Do we allow monies that should’ve been
spent rebuilding the levees in New Orleans and our schools to continue
to be drained by tax cuts for the rich and appropriated to fund an
appallingly unnecessary war in Iraq and beyond, or do we demand our
government drop the barren rhetoric and make the quality of life of its
people its priority via real actions and substantive policies?
Do we want to be a country that lets rampant consumerism and the drive
to have stuff continue to mask a deeper need, or do we slow down and
look at what’s missing in our communities and our lives?
Do we want to be a people that continue to feel despairing and
victimized and immobilized by a government that seems too disconnected
and omnipotent to contend with, or do we let ourselves feel powerful,
recognizing that people all over the world and throughout history have
triumphed over much more daunting odds?
Do we let this grand experiment in democracy, many generations old,
become a failed one, or do we dare to look at what’s really going on in
our government so we can turn around a country that we know in our
hearts is going terribly, terribly wrong?
Like 9.11, the Gulf Coast tragedy has potential to be one of those
change moments. It could be a catalyst to finding our way back to
ourselves, our communities, our ideals and our world. We can choose to
forget all we’ve seen and know and stick our heads in the sand,
squandering another opportunity. We can choose to “move on” and let our
country continue on its hollow path of vacuous consumerism, inequity
and unrepresentative government, or we can say enough is enough. We
can rise to the occasion and take responsibility for this messy,
beautiful place we call the United States and help make it a place that
truly practices what it preaches.
The sociopolitical subtext of Katrina will make itself known. Period.
What that looks like and what direction our country takes now is
entirely our choice, America.
What’s it going to be?
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